1.
He’s a coward and lacks the courage to
declare his interest in you.
2.
He’s waiting for something explicit to
occur from hanging out with you that will make him certain that he should ask
you out. However, that explicit occurrence or “moment” will never happen,
because he’s shifted his understanding that you’re going to make “the move”
which will declare your interest in him. He just flips the effort upside down,
which means he’s a coward by passing off male duties onto you.
3.
He’s weighing the pros and cons of being
in a relationship with you before declaring himself. There is window lasting a
couple days maximum in order for this to occur; after which, he becomes a
coward. I mean it’s pretty simple, you either find her attractive enough to
date or not.
4.
He’s concerned about his appearance and
what other people will think of him at school, which amount to being a vain
coward.
5.
He thinks that he has many “options” from
going to school here and is waiting for a “better deal”, which amounts to being
a vain, arrogant coward.
6.
He realizes that he doesn’t find you
attractive enough to ask out, and for some reason, still continues to put
himself in situations that make you think he’s still interested without
declaring his intentions. He’s a d-bag and a coward.
7.
He’s just leading you on because he feels
“big”, since your displays of interest in him make him feel that he has the
power to reject you at any moment he wants. He’s just a d-bag, straight up.
8.
He thinks he doesn’t meet your
expectations (physically, financially, socially, post-grad plans, etc.).
However, if he’s hanging around you, he wouldn’t be around you if he didn’t
think he had a chance with you, which makes him a coward.
9.
He’s chosen a celibate life. Chances are
slim to none for this one, and slim just left town. This is such a rare
occurrence at this school that it’s safe to rule this one out.
10.
He doesn’t want to date while he’s in
school in order to focus on his studies. That’s a load of crap; but he’s less
of a coward if he actually tells you this (even though he’s lying).
11.
He thinks dating is something far more
serious than it is. He’s very naïve, but he’s still trainable.
12.
He may be getting over a past relationship
and is feels unstable enough to move on. This does happen sometimes; but
considering that most dudes on campus are cowards when it comes to dating in
the first place, I’m skeptical that they’ve even had a recent girlfriend.
13.
He’s keeping his focus on God. This is
either equivalent to choosing a celibate life or an unclear explanation as to
why he doesn’t want to date you, which is a different topic. This foggy reason
is basically saying that he’s a coward, since most of us are already trying to
focus on God (whatever that means). As if adding a virtuous female ally into
his life is going to detract from that!
14.
He’s interested in someone else that you
may not know of. If he’s leading you on, then he’s also leading on another
girl, which means that he’s a d-bag and a coward for not declaring his interest
in either of you.
15.
He’s so stupid that he hasn’t even thought
of dating you, yet. His elevator doesn’t go quite to the top.
Girls,
I’m assuming that you’ve played your cards right and you’re in a “situation”
already. In other words, once you’ve examined yourself, it’s time to look
outwards. Most of these reasons are very realistic; one or two not so much.
Minimally stated, these reasons are directed towards the males on campus in
order to demonstrate why they are cowards when it comes to dating, for the most
part. Perhaps a stifling, glass housed, religious environment on campus
encourages the reasons I’ve mentioned. For the freshman, the young, and/or the
naïve: it’s too early in the year for you to see this clearly.
by Kyle
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